Myth 1: Elder abuse only happens in nursing homes

Fact: Elder abuse can occur in any setting including private homes, assisted living communities, hospitals, and even during short term rehabilitation stays.

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Myth 2: If there are no bruises then there is no abuse

Fact: Many forms of abuse leave no visible marks. Emotional abuse, financial exploitation, neglect, and medical mistreatment are often invisible but still harmful.

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Myth 3: Abuse is always intentional

Fact: Some abuse happens due to caregiver stress, lack of training, poor oversight, or unsafe staffing. Intent does not need to exist for harm to occur.

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Myth 4: Older adults will always report abuse

Fact: Many older adults fear retaliation, feel ashamed, or worry about getting someone in trouble. Some are physically unable to report or have cognitive impairment that limits communication.

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Myth 5: Family members do not commit abuse

Fact: Most abuse cases involve someone the elder knows including family members, friends, neighbors, or trusted caregivers.

 

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Myth 6: If a facility seems clean then the care must be good

Fact: Cleanliness does not guarantee safety. Abuse and neglect can occur even in facilities with attractive buildings, good marketing, and friendly tours.

 

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Myth 7: Abuse only affects the elderly who are very frail

Fact: Any older adult can experience abuse regardless of health, mobility, alertness, or income level.

 

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Myth 8: Sudden behavior changes are normal aging

Fact: Withdrawal, fear, agitation, and sudden mood shifts may be signs of emotional abuse, physical abuse, or medication issues.

 

Myth 9: Financial abuse is easy to spot

Fact: Financial exploitation is often hidden. Missing money, new helpers in the home, strange purchases, or unexplained withdrawals can be early clues.

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Myth 10: If the caregiver is nice then abuse cannot be happening

Fact: Abusers can appear kind, gentle, and trustworthy. Families should evaluate actions and outcomes not personality.